Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Bill cosby once said "people can be more forgiving than you can imagine.But you have to forgive yourself. Let go of what is bitterand move on",sometimes in life we get hurt from the unexpected people we truly love,and when they do hurt us it is pain in our hearts.the love we supposly had turns into hatred. We ask ourselves why ?if everything was going great.it takes time to forget what that person did.Yeah!it's hard for us to forgive in that moment because of what they did.time makes us strong and move on. If we don't forgive ourselves it makes it harder later in the future to move on.it takes courage and it has to come out your heart to forgive and if that person once hurts you they were never meant to be in your life there is a saying forgive but never FORGET!!!

5 comments:

  1. I can understand with what your saying. Everyone becomes hurt in some shape or form and even if time passes by and things have change, the pain is still there, deep down inside. But life goes on and so do people: we realize the past conflicts, situations that have been established, learning from them and knowing what was wrong from the begining. Even as days go by and the pain has gradually faded away,the memory is still their and always remembered. Yes, it's just something you can't FORGET!

    ReplyDelete
  2. Elizabeth I think you are absolutely right! If something was to cause us any kind of pain, it is with "time" that makes us heal, but it does not make us forget. Also, the way you explained how first we have to "forgive ourselves" or it will be "harder later in the future to move on", is what's most important. Overall, I liked the quote you chose and the originality of your interpretation!

    ReplyDelete
  3. I agree with you when you say time makes you stronger. With time you begin to realize things for what they really are. Many of us are usually blind sighted by anger or sadness but with time we open our eyes and see things with a different perspective. Many also say that time heals, something I also agree with greatly.

    ReplyDelete
  4. This is so true! It sucks to realize that someone you were so close ends up stabbing you in the back, it feels hard to even trust anybody. But that's when the quote comes in, in how we can't keep burdens within us, when it comes to conflicting problems! We really do have to forgive ourself and just learn to make ourself happier!even though it's hard to forgive, your right; it's impossible to forget.

    ReplyDelete
  5. Wow this quote is so true. It is hard to realize that someone like a true friend or even a boyfriend has stabbed you in the back one way or another. Yes you become mad.However, you have to let this go or it will turn into hate. You definitely don't want this hate to control your life. The best solution is to forgive the hurtful person.

    ReplyDelete